Please don’t believe her： the emotional cheats that ＂cheaters＂ teach you.

Special feature of 1905 film network The romantic comedy film tells the romantic comedy story of Bai Na, a charlatan, and Yao Dong, a simple man in a small town. Don’t guess the girl’s mind, especially the heroine in this film. From the beginning to the end, it would be a big mistake if everyone’s impression still stays in the beauty school flower or the sad heroine. She has turned into an eccentric and eloquent female liar, holding the hero tightly.

Su Qin, an emotional expert, said: "Every time I see the heroine’s scene, I think of Zhang Wuji. He always doesn’t believe all the big beauties because his mother told him before his death that the more beautiful the girl, the more likely she is to cheat. Of course, this’ cheat’ is quoted, which makes people feel very cute. For example, she had a quarrel with a boy, and then slapped the man in the face, and immediately turned back to call her uncle and made a face of being beaten; There is also a bridge where the female host has been abandoned by love rat for five or six times when she is questioned by the male host and a large family. "

Bai Na in the film, relying on her own efforts, deceived almost everyone, and at the same time gained the love of these people. All this is not only due to her "deception", but Bai Na has various bright spots. When she first came to meet the male host family, she used the technique of sweet mouth. Her father, aunt and grandmother were called, and Bai Na didn’t say a word. She first narrowed the distance with this family in terms of address, which made everyone very happy.

At the same time, she is not stingy with her sincerity. When communicating with people, in addition to language, the communication assistance of sight and body is also very important. Bai Na pays great attention to details and uses her big eyes to convey emotions from time to time, which makes this family believe her unconditionally. Finally, there is Bai Na’s memory. She pays great attention to the information she has obtained, reorganizes it and relays it at an appropriate time, showing her concern for this family, which quickly enhances the family’s goodwill towards her.

It can be said that these characteristics of Bai Na are worth learning from many couples. Behind these so-called "tricks" are respect, sincerity and concern. It is these three skills that make Bai Na invincible and win the affirmation of the male owner and family. In the process of promoting the feelings of many couples, the other family is a very important factor. After talking about marriage, both men and women need to learn to get along with each other’s family system. At this time, we might as well try these characteristics of Bai Na and get along with each other’s family with sincerity and goodwill, so as to promote feelings and live a happy life together in the future.

When it comes to lovers and couples’ life, many people yearn for feelings of mutual respect, but in fact, this way of getting along is very unreal. Love and quarrel are often the normal state in feelings. Quarrel, as an indispensable part of it, makes many people feel headache and fear, because it often means the end or estrangement of a relationship, but the truth is that quarrel is not terrible. If it can be quarreled correctly, this small storm will become an emotional adhesive and a means of communication. When lovers and couples quarrel, the most important thing is to vent their true thoughts in each other’s hearts, so as to promote mutual understanding, while the most unscientific quarrel is cold violence, closing their hearts and not saying their true thoughts, or insulting each other with words when they are not right about people.

In Please Don’t Believe Her, the hero and heroine rarely involve such an unscientific way of quarreling, but in anger, some verbal injuries are hard to avoid, because everyone has the desire to protect their dignity. Once the bottom line and dignity are provoked, it is easy to make a more intense counterattack, so when quarreling, this line must be held. In one of the quarrels, the man accused the woman of being a liar. This word deeply hurt Bai Na, so she tried her best to show weakness. At the same time, she sought alliances and external forces to support herself, and used the man’s family to fight back, instead of taking other more intense ways to further worsen her feelings. In this process, she also gradually merged into a sincere, warm, kind and especially loving family from a liar. Everyone regarded her as a gentle, kind, lively and lovely girl, and her heart was affected, which made her such a beautiful self.

Sincere communication between feelings requires skill. Say the right words at the right time, and the communication time is very important, which will make everyone feel more rational. When communicating, you need to find the common ground between the other party and yourself first, so that the other party can accept it psychologically. Choosing the right time, the right place and saying the right words is a very important love wisdom. We must learn to understand each other, and in the process of constantly understanding each other, we can effectively promote our feelings and make each other happy and satisfied.